10-31-2019 01:10 PM
11-06-2019 03:14 PM
Hi @Lizzymum and welcome to ReachOut,
It sounds like a really challenging situation you are in, and I can hear how Ruby's father not wanting to be a part of her life has meant she has missed out on knowing her older sister.
Reflecting on this post, what are your thoughts at the moment?
I am hearing that this is a big decision for your daughter, and I can imagine that equally Shawn will have his thoughts about what he wants for his older daughter. Have you spoken to anyone else in your life, friends or family, who can share their perspective?
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