09-30-2020 03:33 PM
09-30-2020 11:23 PM
Thank you so much for sharing your story with, us, it sounds like you're dealing with a really difficult situation and I can understand why you're feeling so anxious about things right now. From the sounds of it, your son is just working through all of the different stages of a first "real" relationship. It's important to remember that while sometimes it can seem a bit extreme and overwhelming from the outside, it's an experience we all have to go through. I think what might be most helpful is if you keep showing your son how much you love him, keep being consistent, and keep showing him and his girlfriend respect (even when they don't necessarily show it back!). By doing this you are showing that you trust your son and his decisions, and if he feels trusted he's a lot more likely to come to you for support and advice in the future.
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