Hello @kaiso , thanks for sharing with us. I am sorry to hear about what you have been going through for the last 5 years. It sounds like things have been very tough for a while now. I am glad that you are still reaching out for support so that you can help your daughter. Sorry to hear that your health has been deteriorating, I can't imagine the toll that this would take on a person. Sounds like you have tried various things out so far to get her some support and to help her manage what she is going through.
It's a shame to hear that you have not had too much success with the mental health system so far. It sounds like ongoing support from a psychologist or psychiatrist might be useful for your daughter. Is she currently seeing anyone for support? If your daughter is wanting some more support I think seeing her GP and arrange to see a psychologist would be a good first step. She can also call some helplines such as Kids Helpline and Headspace ( if she is under 25), BeyondBlue, and SuicideLine or Lifeline when she is experiencing thoughts of suicide. I also just wanted to check in with you too, as it sounds like your daughters safety is a concern for you. Are you concerned about your daughters safety right now? Is she currently safe?
This sounds like a lot to deal with, and I am sorry to hear that the relationship between yourself and your daughter has been impacted. Do you have someone that you feel comfortable talking to about everything that has been going on? Talking to someone such as a trusted friend, or a counsellor/psychologist can be really helpful. If you are interested in talking to a counsellor, Parentline is a free, private and confidential 24/7 phone and online counselling service where you can talk through these thoughts and feelings. Also, Family Drug Support has a helpline that you can call to discuss any concerns you have around your daughters substance use. They are also open 24/7 and can support you with some of your concerns. I hope that things get better for you and your family, please feel free to keep us updated here on the forums.
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