Hi all, First post here. I have found videos and conversations on my 13 year old daughters phone (she know I look at it periodically). Videos of her vaping and conversations talking about ‘racking’ at the local shopping centre. Had to Google racking and it means stealing. I am pretty shook up. The vaping issue came up a couple months ago where she said she had tried it twice and didn’t do it anymore because she didn’t like it. But there are a bunch of videos of her doing it over a 4 month period, in her bedroom at home. I am really upset about this disrespect and breach of trust. The stealing is also a major concern although she hasn’t admitted it, instead she says it was a friend who she was with who did it. I can’t understand where we have gone wrong. That she thinks it’s ok to steal and lie to us. I’m reaching out in the hope that some of you may have some advice or are going through similar things. Thanks for reading. ... View more