Hi @PB2591  Thanks for reaching out, it sounds like your family are having a tough time at the moment so it's really great that you've taken that step to get some support. You've mentioned that your granddaughter can be abusive when the internet is turned off, I'm wondering if you think that her starting puberty may have had an effect on her emotional regulation? Our psychologist recently talked about this here, you might like to have a read through. I can understand the stress this must cause, communicating with teenagers isn't always easy! We have some articles on this that you might like to look at as well. You can also give Parentline a call, they are a free support service for parents and carers. You've mentioned that this is all having an effect on your own mental wellbeing as well, have you been able to talk to anyone about how you're feeling? Do you have any supports in place for yourself? ... View more