They both do extra curricular activities and yet, the connection doesn't happen.... We've done several playdates, and during the playdates they have fun with the other kids... But that's it.... They are never invited to other kids houses and barely ever to birthday parties. Last year one girl came out of 8 that were invited to my daughter's bday party 😟. I feel that my kids are lacking emotional intelligence and I've been wondering how to work on that. Any suggestions? Also regarding my daughter.... She seems to be extremely lazy to do any physical effort. My husband is extremely harsh on her and doesn't measure his words - which makes everything worse. Thank you so much for all your answers and willingness to help ... View more