Hi 👋 I need to vent today and looking for advice. My son is 39. He was supposed to leave for USA tomorrow from Australia to visit with his wife who is from there. They were going to her sister's wedding and had lots of activities and trips planned. He applied for his Visa later than he should and was denied. He is devastated as is she. There is no reason why he was denied, he is at a loss to understand why and has never been refused before and he cannot appeal in time to go. He has just come out of a deep depressive episode and was looking forward to this holiday so much. As a Mum I'm worried sick that he will do something silly while she's away as she will still go. I'm probably overthinking but I feel sick to my stomach as he is a negative thinker at the best of times as I am. We both suffer from acute anxiety. I just got off the phone with him and he's angry now and in a full on pity party as to why him? I try to tell him that life is like that but he takes everything so literally and personally. It sucks. I feel sad for him and my daughter in law but I just don't know how to not constantly worry and feel ill about it. He is not close by. He lives in another State so can't visit him. Can I have some feedback or help here please. ... View more