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03-12-2019
03:26 PM
Thank you @gina-Ro and @JAKGR8 She hasn’t managed to make it to school since last Wednesday so it’s only been one half day in two weeks. But there’s still hope, as you say a powerful word. She wants to leave school but can’t until she is 17 in two months. I am hoping her psycatrist can sign for off sick for this time so she can concentrate on her mental health. She certainly cannot get a job at the moment or consider alternative learning which is the alternative to staying on. I’m also trying to persuade her to do DBT but this ofcourse is up to her.
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03-07-2019
07:59 PM
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Thank you JAKGR8. Her school are wonderful and have been so accomodating and she has a great CAF's teacher who has gone above and beyond in helping her. Her depression got pretty bad after my post and she missed 2 weeks of school but after a session with a new psychologist (her previous one who she adored unfortunately became very ill and stopped practicing). They came up with a plan that she would go to school and not worry about the academic side, she's not doing an ATAR as she doesn't want to go to university, and to use the next few months (Year 11 finishes in September) to decide what she wants to do - work, TAFE etc. Since then she has been really good and going to school. I know with BPD this can change day by day but taking each day as it comes. Thank you for everyones support and advise. Its' really appreciated :-)
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02-15-2019
12:25 PM
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Thank you JA. The meeting went well. Year 11 & 12 have to follow the NESA Guidelines so unfortunately she is unable to give up a subject but now the school know how much she is struggling they will help her wherever possible with homework extensions etc. Year 11 seems to be a very hard year to transition into even for the confident kids. Apparently there are only 3 Terms in Year 11 and they have to cram so much in. Hoping all the kids out there make it through ok.
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02-14-2019
12:11 PM
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Thank you for your reassurance JA. Her school is very accommodating so I am sure they will come up with a good study plan for her. She doesn’t want to go to uni, she just wants to get some qualifications under her belt before leaving school. Your comments have really helped :)
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02-13-2019
06:12 PM
My daughter - aged 16 and in Year 11 - missed most of school last year and got very behind in her studies. She has now returned to Year 11 with the hope of starting afresh with her HSC's. Unfortunately she is finding the classes very hard and being at school 5 days a week. She is saying it is making her ill again and is really worried about being hospitalised again. She would like to drop one subject and we were just wondering if this is possible. I remember an old therapist telling her there were special circumstances for children with a diagnosis. Her diagnosis is Boarderline Personality Disorder, Major Depression and Social Anxiety. We have a meeting with her school on Friday but I would like to go in with some ammunition :-)
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03-08-2018
01:11 PM
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Thank you @taokat it sounds like you have been through this too. It has certainly been a very trying time but we are starting to see some improvement which is positive. The right medication/combination has not been found yet but they changed her night meds yesterday and speaking to her this morning she seems to be better - but time will tell. She is certainly in the right place and the doctors and nurses who work in AAU's should be highly commended for a great job they do.
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03-03-2018
07:23 PM
Thank you @Sally-RO it’s so good to feel there is someone out there to reach out to. I’ve just spoken to my parents overseas and broke down. I’m feeling the pain for my daughter and they are feeling the pain for me. She is certainly in the right place. Thanks for letting me know about SCS - I will certainly be contacting them. Thanks again 🙏
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03-03-2018
07:20 PM
Thank you so much @Sally-RO I’ll certainly be contacting Suicide Call Back Service. I’m feeling a tad better pouring it out to my parents overseas. They are feeling for me as I am feeling for my girl
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03-03-2018
06:06 PM
My daughter is 15, nearly 16, and has had anxiety & depression for the last 3 years and trialing various antidepressants for the last two. She self harms and has made 3 suicide attempts in the last 3 months. She is now in an Adolescent Acute Unit and came out last night for home leave but it was a disaster and we ended up taking her back early. I just feel so sick & empty at the moment, she keeps phoning but it’s best I stay away for a day or so. I’m heartbroken and need a shoulder to cry on. My friends are great but I need to communicate someone who is going through or been through what I’m going through 😔
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11-28-2017
03:42 PM
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Hi @taokat Thanks for your kind words. My daughter is 15 now (this was an old post) and sounds just like your daughter. We have finally found an excellent psychiatrist at the BDI who is closely monitoring and modifying her medication. She is also seeing a psycologist for DBT and Interpersonal Therapy. It's still early days but after an agonising 18 months we feel like we are getting somewhere. Thank you for sharing your story, it has given me some comfort.
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11-27-2017
06:07 PM
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Taenoogie: Well that made me feel great!! Thanks for expressing your views and making me feel like the worse parent ever. I am doing everything I can to keep my daughter going and if it means finding the right medication, which I am still doing, then that’s what I will do. You can not compare mental illness to cancer. Please keep your options to yourself in future as I’m sure I’m not the only one who has been upset by this.
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11-27-2017
06:05 PM
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I am so sorry Melindas. I was pretty upset and just pressed on reply. I will reply to the said person now. I hope things are ok your end.
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11-27-2017
08:08 AM
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Well that made me feel great!! Thanks for expressing your views and making me feel like the worse parent ever. I am doing everything I can to keep my daughter going and if it means finding the right medication, which I am still doing, then that’s what I will do. You can not compare mental illness to cancer. Please keep your options to yourself in future as I’m sure I’m not the only one who has been upset by this.
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07-10-2017
08:47 PM
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Thank you @taokat @TOM-RO and @Big_Crab for your response, it really meant a lot especially in my hour of need. I normally cope OK but yesterday was a bad day and it escalated and ended up with me taking my daughter to Emergency. I had to break into the bathroom to stop her self harming, she was out of control - screaming at me and my husband, physically attacking me, saying she wanted to kill herself, she was done - she could not go on. The hospital were fantastic and I would recommend to anyone in that situation to go there. She went straight into Acute Care where they calmed her down (and me - I was in pieces by then). She saw the mental health nurse who was amazing, really gave her some good coping mechanisms. She has also been subscribed medication for when she feels things are getting out of control. I'm a little bit phased as her psyciatrist had perscribed the same one as a sleeping aid not as a calming mechanism. Anyway she is so much better today. And with regards to self care for myself - which I know is so important - I find mindfulness such a help and a good walk with my dog. I really wasn't coping yesterday and I think that may have impacted the situation but we can't all be good all of the time. Thank you everyone. Will keep you posted xx
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07-09-2017
06:22 PM
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The last year has got progressively worse. She now self harms, missed so much school this year, has Tried various medications (I have now taken her off antidepressants as they don't seem to work for her) and she is seeing a psychologist and a psychiatrist. Nothing seems to work. I recently took her away for a week to get her away from everything (and everyone) - she was ok while we were away but of course as soon as we get back everything goes back to the way it is. I know there isn't a magic answer but I just wanted to put it out there and hopefully get some tips from other parents.
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08-13-2016
07:10 AM
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I will definitely try & get my daughter on the forum. When we were overseas (we don't have any family here) & she met with older teen relatives it really helped. The medication has helped - she even hugged me the other day & told me how happy she is - but since has had a low again (to be expected) - talking to others on the forum would certainly help :)
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08-05-2016
02:44 PM
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Thanks so much. Vast improvements this week. Our GP subscribed her with the required medication and I've noticed a considerable change. I think it's someone other than me & her pyscologisy taking her seriously that has helped more than anything. Onwards & upwards :)
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07-27-2016
04:55 PM
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Thank you Waldo-P it is really reassuring to hear that your son responded so well on the meds & is doing so well. i know my normal gp will prescribe them for my daughter and we are going to go ahead. It's so heartbreaking when I pick her up from school and she's close to breaking down and saying she can't go on like this. Seeing her wonderful counsellor tomorrow - yes it is all about rapore & trust) so hopefully she will be feeling a bit better after seeing her and then we will go to the GP Thanks again
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07-25-2016
08:10 PM
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Thank you for your response & support. She had been messaging me all day telling me how bad she feels & has come home from school & wont talk to me about it. Hopefully she can see her councelor again on Thursday and she will put us in touch with a psychiatrist. It's all such a waiting game. It's so annoying as her councellor, after talking to her, understands her needs. i have been in touch with Headspace in the past and they have been very helpful but she won't speak to them. I'm at my wits end & very worried but must stay strong for her.
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07-25-2016
12:29 PM
My 14 year old daughter has been seeing a counsellor, who I really like & trust and so does my daughter, and she has said that my daughter is very depressed and advised that we see the GP to get her onto antidepressants. The GP at the medical centre wouldn't prescribe them and just said she needed more sleep & to eat better. This really upset my daughter as she thinks now body understands how she feels, that she is making it up & wasting their time (a classic symptom of being depressed). Her counsellor wants to refer her to an adolescent psychiatrist to obtain medication.
I want to do anything I can to help my daughter but I'm just worried about her taking antidepressants at such a young age.
Any thoughts or experiences others teens have had on antidepressants? Thanks
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| Date Registered | 07-25-2016 12:22 PM |
| Date Last Visited | 03-12-2019 05:31 PM |
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