Our 13 year old daughter has been displaying manipulative behaviour for a number of years but it is getting worse and more insidious. I am at breaking point and we are getting no help from her psychs because she refuses to speak to them or implement their stratergies. She keeps getting referred back and foward while getting no where. If she doesn't want to do homework or wear her uniform or participate in school she threatens to kill herself, the school have contacted us numerous times in regards to these threats. She describes in detail how she wants to kill me eg poison or "I will stab you in the neck and frame dad and say you were fighting about his ex gf". She steals from me, causes fights between people (for example tells intricate stories or changes details about something and tells it to 2 different adults and tries to plant seeds for them to argue), lies for the sake of lying, goes through my things and stalks every social media account I have, she hurt my 4yro niece just to comfort her, Im terrified of her and what she will do to our son when I'm not around. Her goal in life is for her dad to die so she can travel on his life insurance/super. The list goes on. I don't let her know I am afaid and we push on like normal but I am at the point where I want to leave my partner. He is broken hearted about her behaviour (as we have never raised her to be like this and both of us are driven people who communicate openly and rationally). He said to me that he loves her but absolutely hates her at the moment. I am desperate for help and we are getting no where. ... View more