Hello @Lkahn.  I don't know if this will work but have you tried talking to her one-on-one in a quiet room then you show your vulnerability and concern and you ask her. You have to impose your authority if it comes to that in a very parental way. The first thing you have to know is her problem, then you can tackle it when you already know it but for now, you have to first make the problem surface before you can deal with it. ... View more