Hi my dear,   You can't stop someone from bad mouthing you. All you can do is RISE ABOVE IT.   If you get down and muddy with them - you feed the narrative. So Don't even give him the benefit of a reaction.   Instead beat hate with Love - Show your children - POSITIVE YOU:)  Example - Have a Kid & Me day - like a Friday or Saturday where you treat the children to dance- beach- just being, cheeky and happy and of course Ice cream:)   The trick is to spend alot of time being happy with your children - building positive long lasting memories for with them and for them - this way their opinion of you wont be so easily swayed.   Be the Best Queen Mother you can BE! ... View more