Hi Skye33 I realize it has been a year since you posted on this forum. But your post truly resonated with me. In my current situation.  I do hope you have found some resources and that your sons have moved beyond some of the difficulties that you posted about. I am in a similar situation with my 18 year old son. He is in 12th grade and my immediate concern is his marijuana use. But he is also at risk of not graduating high school. He has been on a spiral for the last few years but I had hoped it was teenage angst and it would pass.  Unfortunately his pot smoking habit has become a priority and everything else secondary. My husband and I work full time and we have 2 younger girls at home. So his issues affect us all. I am at my wit's end and I really have no idea what to do.  Today my son and I went to his doctor who spent the appt telling me how I enabled my son and lecturing my son. Can you guess how effective that was?? We were there to get a referral for drug counseling but the doc didn't seem to have any idea what that meant for my marijuana smoking son. So he said we should have a referral in about a week if my insurance deems it so. I live in a place where recreational pot is legal which makes it so accessible and almost fruitless to fight. Almost. I don't know where to turn for help for him and some times I am not even sure he wants to change.  Thank you for hearing me out. ... View more