Hi @PotatoCake Sounds like your son has a very toxic relationship going on at the moment. Im not sure if he told you what happened with her in co fidence..do his friends know? Is there one of his friends that could talk to hima bout how dangerous this girl is? Failing that, if you have a good relationship with your son, perhaps you could sit with him and talk about the issues in an adult way...use facts, research, legal ramifications, always listen even if he interrupts you...make plenty of time available for the co versation and perhaps have it in a place where there are minimal distractions and minimal routes for him to exit..like a quiet walk somewhere or in a park or in the car. I know boys dont often like face to face talking..dont make the conversation about you..forget things like 'Im so worried for you' or 'You will ruin your life being with her' dont accuse her...just keep to the facts and use examples of research...when hes had enough, leave it to sink in..be patient and try again another time. Obviously if he has a friend that could do this it would also work really well but if he has none he has told or you dont trust them then that wont work. I wish you luck and hope he gets through this rough time. Emma  ... View more