I have similar behaviour from my 19 yr old son. It is so hard and as much as I don't want him to I'm beginning to think it would be best for our relationship if he moved out. He can't afford to do this and I refuse to kick him out but I know it's what he needs more than anything. I think it would make him grow up, realise how lucky he is to have the love and support we give him and hopefully appreciate that a lot more. I hate every conversation being a issue or creating a new one. Looking at history kids moved out into the world a lot sooner than they do these days, I totally understand that going through what we are now with him. ... View more