I am in the same boat with a 15 year old son.   Can I have him removed?  He hardly has any walls left in his room.   He has knives from my kitchen set, screwdrivers, etc.   I'm actually afraid of him.   Two weeks ago he had ordered something from some pot site and I heard the mailman and went and got a package and he came running out of his room and threatened me with a lamp and a vacuum.   He told me my work computer was done (I work from home) and so I gave him the package because I cannot be without my work computer!  What the hell.  He cares about nothing - consequences - I say no drivers permit until you have a B average, and his response is "OK I'll wait until I'm 18 then".  I've offered money for good grades, have met with teachers who say is perfectly competent and very polite, yet he tells me he cares about nothing.   I'm not even sure where he gets his drugs.  This is all in the past 6 mos.  Before that it was just a simple struggle with homework.   Drugs make it all worse.  I'm actually afraid to have him removed as well because he will come back and burn the house down or something.   What do I do?    ... View more