Hi @TaStaj, Thank you so much for introducing yourself! Running is such a massive stress relief. I also love relaxing by doing nothing too! If you want to share more about your experience, please feel welcome to create your own thread by clicking 'Start a topic'. We can't wait to hear from you ... View more

1) Let her smoke outside. Smoking is her choice. 2) Faking mental illness, is indicative of an underlying mental problem.  3) Stand your ground more, no room for arguments. Don't fight with her. Don't let her fight. 4) Next time she threatens suicide, take her to an open therapist office or psychiatrist etc. 5) 5-7 years of emotional blackmail doesn't mean you failed as a parent. You just have a **bleep**ty kid.   Hope that helped. :) ... View more