Not sure where to even start, but here goes. My 19 (almost 20) daughter keeps wanting to sleepover at her lesbian girlfriend s house. My daughter claims they don't sleep together, and she stays In the guest room, but that's not the only point. My opinion is NO, since if this were a boyfriend we won't even be having this conversation. Besides the morality of it all I also think my daughter needs more discipline an impulse control in her life. But she tends to be very spontaneous with no thought to long term consequences. I'm torn between letting her answer for her actions and guiding and teaching her self control. Maybe she's already too old for that? Besides, the heart wants what the heart wants? My daughter is a good kid, gets excellent grades, has a great work ethic and is always working, but this issue is really straining us. She had some abusive boyfriends in the past, and sees a counselor to help with her issues, and just came out as a lesbian herself when she met her new friend. But when she falls for someone, she falls hard, so I think she's setting herself up again. My wife seems to side with my daughter because she seems happier when they're together, and her past abusive relationships really tore her up. This is driving a wedge between us too. Advice or thoughts? Thanks in advance....
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