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Jaype · ‎10-26-2019

Thank you so much. I’m doing ok. AVO is in place and he is living at his dads

Jaype · ‎10-15-2019

So things have escalated again and I can’t quite believe they have got to this point. After being home for 3 days during which he got banned from a local shopping centre and also stole from me, things came to a head. He mentioned he wanted to go for a surf in the morning and I replied that his board wasn’t at the house at the moment. He completely lost his temper and started smashing things very deliberately to frighten me and his sister. Ended up having to call the police and there is an AVO in place and he has been charged with assault and malicious damage. I’m heartbroken as I don’t know what else to do. He’s refusing to get any help and I can tell he is lost, hurting and angry and I don’t know how to help him

Jaype · ‎09-30-2019

Thanks you. I will call them tonight 😊

Jaype · ‎09-29-2019

And my son has been receptive to help before but part of me thinks he is comfortable with the choices he is making. They being said he is going to see Headspace this week

Jaype · ‎09-29-2019

Thank you @Taylor-RO 😊 I have a 21 year old daughter and she was the only one home when he punched a hole in the wall. She is now terrified. Unfortunately we have experienced another family member like this... PTSD, depression and anxiety that resulted in a lot of aggressive threatening behaviour and my daughter is traumatised from that. I will definitely get some help if I need it. I’m ok at the moment because I’ve had experience with this before. Doesn’t make it any easier but does mean I have some strategies in place to cope. A youth worker has been in communication with my son which is good. I’m here to help him when he is ready to help himself

Jaype · ‎09-28-2019

Thanks... unfortunately things have gone from bad to worse. He punched a hole in the wall this week. I spoke to him again about respect and general good behaviour. That didn’t end well. He became physically aggressive and spat at me. So to keep us all safe I had to get him to leave. I know where he is and he will be going to his fathers next week. I feel that his drug use and experimentation is more frequent than he has told me. It’s incredibly difficult doing the tough love at the moment

Jaype · ‎09-22-2019

Thank you Yes he tells me everything, the whole sex, drugs and rock n roll part of his life. We went for a mental health care plan appointment last week and got a referral but even if I take him I’m not sure he is going to help others help him. As for the other suggestion I’ve racked my brain as to what I can use such as Xbox. The only thing important to him is freedom. I’ve told him he has one month to steadily improve his behaviour and if he chooses not to that I’m cutting off his phone and he will have to pay for it himself if he wants it. He’s 10 foot tall and bulletproof at the moment

Jaype · ‎09-21-2019

My 15 year old son is making continual bad choices and then tells me to trust him. He is experimenting with drugs, refusing to attend school and generally not acknowledging that he has any boundaries at all. I’ve always treated him with respect and he is very open about what he is doing but becomes verbally abusive if he doesn’t get his own way. He wants complete freedom and cannot understand why that isn’t possible. His father and I split a year ago and I thought he would be better as it wasn’t a great situation. I’ve taken him to a psychologist and done everything I can to help him but nothing seems to work. I’m at my wits end... I’m willing to work with him but as far as he is concerned he hates rules and shouldn’t have to obey them

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