Girl I can’t either!! Our story (like most on here) sound so similar as the only difference is I have a 15 y/o daughter who thinks she runs the GD house! What happened to parents it’s like all of a sudden we have absolutely no control! For example, my daughter was being very disrespectful to her father & I last night so we told her she’s grounded for 2 weeks. Well, today comes and she wants her bf to come over so I reminded her that Dad & I told you that you were grounded for 2 weeks for being so disrespectful last night. So what did she do...she threw the biggest hissy fit in the world! Yelling, screaming, swearing, berating, and the list goes on and on and on this morning, almost as if it had just carried over from last night, Lol! Any hoo, I told her bf he was not to come over because my daughter was being punished and thought that was that. Well, here I am minding my own business in the sanctuary of my living room when guess who gets dropped off? Yup, her bf! So, I looked at my daughter and said you were specifically told not to have him over (FYI - he’s a nice kid I have no problem w/him) and what does she say to me “well this is the last time I’ll see him till next week. So, I said, not my problem and you probably should’ve behaved last night and we wouldn’t be having to this problem now would we. Then it’s on to the BF, I said to him did I or did I not tell you to come over today and he said you told me not to come over then I said yet here we all are! My God am I in Bizzarro-Land or something? My husband works during the day and I’m a stay at home mom so a lot of this is put on my shoulders BUT I just can’t take it anymore! Had I ever pulled a stunt like that with my mom and dad growing up I wouldn't have had to worry about ever going out again!! People this is what we are dealing with on a daily basis! I feel like the worst mother on the planet! And, I just don’t get why everyone else can have rules in their house EXCEPT us apparently. She is so vile and mean to me she makes me cry on a daily basis. I feel like pulling teeth would be a more humane for of torture than this and there’s no one to turn to for help!
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