Hi @WorriedAuntie ,    Thanks so much for posting here with your concerns about your niece, I hope the community can be a helpful space for you.    I can hear your concern for your niece in your words, and I can understand why you and her grandfather would be concerned about who she's taking to online, especially when he's found some concerning messages. It can be really tricky teaching teenagers to navigate the online world safely. It sounds like her grandfather has been really proactive in talking to her about some of the pitfalls and dangers of interacting with people, especially people she doesn't know well, online. That's really excellent.    This link has a lot of resources and information about risk-taking in teenagers, including online behaviour, and has some great ideas and videos that might be helpful.    There's also some really great tips about online safety here from our ReachOut Parents page.    I hear your concerns about her being  obsessed with male attention  - teaching our kids about their self-worth, consent, and being respected in their relationships is really important. It can be really hard in the teenage years though, especially when a lot of people do crave attention from the opposite sex.    I'm wondering, have you had any conversations with her about what healthy relationships look like, or about how to set her own boundaries in her relationships with boys?    I'm also going to tag in a few of our active parents community members who may have been through similar with their teens @compassion  @Faob_1  @Dadof4kids    It looks like you're in Canada, is that right? I came across this service which might also be helpful, if you'd like to chat over these issues with someone.       Thanks so much for posting here, and please keep us posted on how your niece is getting on :)  ... View more