Hello, I have a problem because my partner would like and keep asking to let his parents looking after our baby since his born. But I totally refuse. First because I am looking after my baby and don’t need help or break. Second and most important because I don’t trust them at all. I see the way they looking after my brother in law kids. I saw them give adult cutlery to play with. I saw them insult of little bi*** to the little girl, I saw them let them run outside on winter without jacket, I saw them don’t bring the kids who’s obviously sick to the Gp even after three weeks of being sick, I saw them don’t go to the kids room at night time because they listen the tv so loud that they can’t hear anything, I heard that they baptised the kids on the behalf of the parents. They called the social worker to complain about the mother kids for no reason then try to adopt them the same week. I heard them said they wish that they never leave the house and wish to be the parent of they younger son kids even that they knows the younger son a good parent. When I was breastfeeding they would give awful advice that I didn’t even ask them anything: like they suggest me to drink dark beer to increased milk, to put a dummy in whisky, or to let my baby cry or said that it was stupid to hold my baby in my arms... My partner father don’t even like me and keep insulting me and my partner just pretend he didn’t hear anything or even just said that parents are angel and perfect and that they can do whatever they want even at our house. Last time they came before the virus, I said to his mother to not put her finger in his eyes and use the water for eyes that we brough, and the first things she did not even ten min later was to rub my baby’s with her finger. If I have to let my baby with them I’m afraid he will be not safe because they do what they want and wouldn’t follow any of my decision as a mother of my baby. Now I know they have money and huge family who can agree with everything and lie for them. I don’t have any family here in Australia or even money and they know that. I think they most scary part it’s my partner who act like totally a robot like he owned them the world and for that reason agree on everything they said, he’s own parents doesn’t even respect him. His father make fun of him all the time and insult him and he just laugh and pretend it’s okay. My partner keep push me and force me to see them even on the corona virus time. Last time he said i was rude to not going stay with them for a week even the country was in confinement and they parent had at they house the other grand kids who has like they said “ a very bad cold” and my partner said I wasn’t nice to not going visit them! So if anyone has advise or tips or know if I can legally do something. Thanks
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