Hi @Erin25, recreating your son's bedroom sounds like a really great idea. Do you have any plans so far? It is great that you have got the contact details for the other parents. It might help you feel more reassured as you know a little more about who your son is staying with. Plus you are able to pick him up from their house, if necessary. I was wondering if you are ever in the position to give your son and his friends a lift? This way you might be more aware of exactly where they are going or what they plan on doing. We are so glad that you find this forum helpful - it can be so easy to feel alone but we assure you that heaps of parents have felt similarly to you. Has your son told you that he is using drugs and alcohol? If this is something you are concerned about, would you feel comfortable talking to his friend's parents about it?    I noticed you posted your story across two different threads. I combined the threads so that your story is in the one place so you can get the best type of support. I have also tagged some other parents who have been in a similar situation or may be able to give you some support @Teen15  @Janine-RO  @JAKGR8 @EriTatiana @seabear  ... View more