thanks for sharing that. It sounds like you are in a really difficult position, especially given your son is reluctant to talk about this. Do you know where the reluctance comes from? It does sound like it would be worthwhile if you could discuss the issues you have mentioned about the step mum and her kids. Just so your son can consider these things if he has not already. It is really hard to make decisions during a pandemic or even in the aftermath of one! Also, have you been able to talk to his dad about the move? For example, what the new arrangements would be, how often can your son visit, what if your son is not happy etc. You could also have a think about what would happen if you don't let your son move. What do you think things will be like at home? I guess with the current restrictions on travelling, there is still some time to decide and time for life to begin to return to normal which may help the situation. I can imagine this must be really stressful for you, alongside everything else going on at the moment.   ... View more