My daughters boyfriend‘s family has 14 children. Mom is 45 and just had number 14, just to give some background. The boy feels unloved and sits in his room most days. The family has been very standoffish towards my husband and I trying to reach out to them. The boy has threatened numerous times suicide. We have the room to take him in and help him out, however my oldest son 26, Who still lives at home says he would leave or just downright be rude to him if he were to move here. My 18-year-old who is here also but not all the time thinks it’s a bad idea. The boys lived here for a while once before at the beginning of July but left because he said he was homesick, so my son thinks he burned his bridge and should now live with his actions. I’m concerned over the things that I hear his parents saying and doing just because they don’t like my daughter. They are allowed to feel that way, I get it. But mental abuse seems to flow freely in their home. For example This last birth mom had some trouble and had to have a hysterectomy and she made the boy look at it and feel it and blamed it on him because of his desire to see my daughter. They’ve said if he tries to see my daughter he will be sent to Vermont to live with her family until he is 18, which is February. In the past we’ve Helped out friends of my oldest son and friends of my middle child as well, why are the boys so adamant of not helping this young man? I work from home and I trust my daughter. Everything she’s tried to do or that my husband and I have tried to do, have ultimately gotten the boy in trouble with his parents causing more strain on his anxiety and depression. I’m stuck between doing the right thing and listening to my children tell me what to do which seems very very wrong. Any advice or input is appreciated. ... View more