After moving across country last year, we ended up having to send our daughter back home to live with my parents (her grandparents) as she didnt settle in our new city. She has been doing very well at school (she missed almost 7 months of school as she refused to attend over here), she has made new friends (whoch was the major reason she refused to go to school here) and is even back playing sport however, at home she has become aggressive towards her grandparents and other family members. She will yell and scream at anyone she feels is being unfair to her (which could be as simple as her Nana not buying her the food she wants to eat or someone not taking her to a friedns house when she demands to be taken) and its now getting to the point where we are afraid to let her stay there as we are concerned she will push and hurt her grandfather. We dont know how to help my parents and our daughter other than to move her out. Im afraid that this will make her feel unwanted or unloved, as she has some of those feelings towards us (although it was something she requested and that we sat down and spoke about with her on numerous occassions before she went) Our intention was to get her home for each holiday break however, with the restrictions of covid 19, she is on the other side of the country and hasnt been home since she left in November last year. Im not sure what to do and feel like ive failed her. Is there anything you would suggest?
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