Hi, new here, desperate to find others who understand what I'm going through. My son, adopted, his bio dad is our eldest son, was the picture of totally delightful child till he reached eleven. We were always pinching ourselves, thinking this was our reward for the trials we endured with our eldest, but then the shoe dropped. Now he's fourteen. Can't take "no" for an answer, when he asked for something I freeze, knowing that I'm trapped, I either acquiesce or face his wrath. So far I have faced the wrath, but I must admit I am indulging more and more in substances that dull my mind and help me cope. He's big, towers over me, has hit me once and makes my life a living hell. I know there's no one out there with an easy answer, but I'd love to hear from others who understand. This boy was the joy of my life, and now.............now I don't even recognize him anymore.
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