Hi @Marie_069 , it sounds like you have been an amazing support for your daughter, I can imagine that moving to a new country with two daughters as a single parent must have taken a huge amount of courage and strength.
I think it is completely understandable if you are feeling like you don't have any more to give some days - as parents, it can often be easy to feel like you have to keep on giving and giving, but you can't pour from an empty cup. I'm just wondering if you've ever had any support for yourself? I think that @Birdwings is absolutely spot on, it's so important to try and do something that's just for you, whether that is taking walks, doing yoga, having a bath alone, going to the beach - whatever it is that 'fills your cup'.
I'm also wondering if your daughter is working, or studying at the moment? It must be so difficult seeing her making the decision to sell x rated videos of herself.
Has she opened up any more about what she would like to do about her pregnancy?
You sound like such a loving and caring mum, and I think what @Birdwings said it perfectly: " One thing that really distinguishes us is that we're actively looking for constructive ways of improving what's going on in our families and we're not lying face down with our faces in the dirt saying the situation is hopeless. So, when you find yourself thinking that you're unable to make a difference to the situation, tell yourself that's a lie. It's not true. You are out seeking advise, support, information and skilling yourself up. You are being proactive".
Your daughter is very lucky to have you in her corner, and we are all here for you.
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