Hi Anniesmum, I feel your pain. I also have a daughter - Lesley, who used to be very active until she reached about 12 years, ann incident happened and we (me and ex-wife) had to separate. This terrible incident broke her completely and now she is afraid of even making friends. I have tried taking her out on parties, camping with close family friends and even to stadiums to watch live sports and chill out and perhaps she would find someone to speak to, but all the efforts went in vein. Now I'm thinking of pushing her into basketball sports because this game can be played indoor and outdoor and you get to face different people. Additionally, she is very good at hooping and once she starts getting appreciation, she might start talking to people and go out with them to live her life. That is my plan, I would suggest you to think of something for her.   ... View more