Hi @missymoo13 , welcome to the ReachOut community! It takes strength to reach out for support, and your willingness to connect here shows just how resilient you are as a parent. It's clear that you care deeply about your children and their well-being.  I’m really sorry to hear about the challenges you and your family have faced and are currently facing. Dealing with family violence and the subsequent impacts on your children sounds incredibly painful and overwhelming, and I wanted to acknowledge your courage in facing such difficult circumstances. It's understandable to feel let down by systems that were meant to protect your family. Your commitment to self-care amidst these circumstances is admirable. Taking care of yourself, no matter how small the gesture, is crucial during tough times. Your tip for parents navigating the teenage years is insightful and reflective of your understanding of the importance of giving teens the space to grow and discover themselves. It can be really important to strike that balance between offering support and granting independence.  I encourage you to create your own thread here to share more about your journey and to connect with other parents who may be going through similar challenges. And I wish you all the luck in finding connection and support within the ReachOut community ... View more

Hi @Charms1302  Thank you for reaching out for some support with this. Your teen receiving a new diagnosis can be a bit of a stressful time, but it’s fantastic to see that you are being proactive in looking for the right support for your daughter.    You or your daughter might want to have a look through some of these articles on BPD to get some more information on what it can look like, and how to get support. We also recommend trying the APS tool to find a psychologist in your area. You can enter your location and specialty, to find supports available near you. I’m wondering if the psychiatrist you saw had any referral suggestions at all?   How are you feeling about the diagnosis? Do you have friends or family you can chat to about how you’re feeling?   (Also, just letting you know I had to edit out your location from your post, as it goes against our Community Guidelines). ... View more