Well I am very late and this is my first time to write!!
Sorry to hear you are having these worries with your daughter and the boyfriend. Such a worrying time when you can see that he is so wrong for her. Sounds like you are on the right track and all I can think is how lucky she is to have such loving people around her to guide her. You are clearly doing a fantastic job and it seems at she is actually listening to you and your husband.
I have a friend who son is in a very toxic relationship..he is a beautiful 16 year old boy who is in the grips a very stunning looking but completely self obsessed, needy and manipulative young woman. My friend is so concerned but like you know she can only give a little gentle advise and tread gently. I have felt tempted many times to knock her block off but it seems we all agree that in the end that is not the solution!
Have taken note of all the brilliant advise and the book.
Hope all works out.
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