Hello @PlumHalo, sorry to hear about what you have been going through lately. That sounds like a really challenging situation to navigate. I can understand the concerns that you have about your children and being able to engage in their activities. It sounds like you have been quite active already, trying counselling and mediation with your partners ex-wife and partner. It is a shame to hear that you are still having issues despite these strategies. I am wondering if you have had the chance to talk to anyone about your concerns? It might be helpful for you to talk through your concerns with a professional, such as a counsellor or psychologist. We are a service located in Australia, so we unfortunately cannot provide you with any specific referrals, but it sounds like it might be worthwhile looking into some telephone counselling services/helplines available for you in your area. I hope some of this information is helpful and that the community here is able to provide you with some advice and insight during this challenging period   ... View more