My 16 year old has started dating a boy of the same age, the issue I have is that he is currently homeless & sleeping on a friends sofa, apparently his step dad kicked him out but my daughter has not even asked why! His friend told her they argued a lot & he would get real angry!He came over to watch a movie yesterday & I was shocked at his appearance, his clothes were dirty, he looked disheveled & he didn’t smell too good either & I just can not get my head around why my daughter who takes care of how she looks & dresses would want to date a guy who looks like this, he seems ok but I can’t help feel embarrassed & I know I might sound mean but for me I can understand he may not have nice clothes but there’s no excuse not to keep yourself clean, the house he is staying at looks like an absolute mess too, I feel sorry for him but at the same time I’m horrified my daughter is dating him & I’ve voiced my opinion to my daughter & it has caused huge arguments but for all I know he may of done something real bad to be kicked out of his home, he works a few hours here & there but does not attend college. Should I be concerned, I lay awake at night with anxiety!!
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