Beautiful ! on the right path. Wishing you and your family the very best. ... View more

Hmmm.. this is a  tricky one. First , you need to win your daughter to yourself. Build a solid relationship, build trust. She has problem with her self esteem and she is ready to do what those naughty boys ask her to do. Secondly, sit her down and let her see the reasons why she should not do wrong stuff. Let her know those guys does not respect her and her body. Let her know if someone really love her they wont be asking her stupid requests.  Confiscating  her card ,phone etc is a good way to show your displeasure  but that is not the solution to the problem. You need to let her know she does not need to do the bidding of those naughty boys  to validate her beauty.  Try and understand her feeling  and show genuine concern. All shall be well . ... View more

You are welcome sister. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=53JD-KBgKSE ... View more

Sorry about this. This is a really trying time for you. You are not a bad mum it is because you under stress. I guess you need to see your GP and there maybe other  community supports where they can provide assistance to you. You got to realise  that your kids are reacting  because they are  stressed too. You need to self regulate, shrug off low self esteem. Brace up and seek help from the community services, council. Be positive , don't entertain wrong thoughts. Everything will alright. ... View more

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Change her school  period!  Some kids are mean,  products of poor upbringing. ... View more

I think you need to see health  professional concerning your daughter  for proper referral, you should not take things lightly. It could leads to serious mental health  problem  the adage says  a stitch in time saves nine.  Kids face a lot challenges especially nowadays .  ... View more

Simply exchange yours for his. Alternatively check on gumtree, Facebook market or even the op shops if you don't mind buying used item. ... View more

The adage says there is no smoke without fire . There is likely  an object of offence that is making the girl refusing school. Taking her electronics off her does not help I believe . How about changing her school?  I think the best time to ask her questions about  her not liking school is when she is very happy. Dont make things too hard for her, Dialogue with her, show more and affection,  giver space maybe she will open up. ... View more

It can be challenging for parent to see her kid  not doing well. I will suggest that you befriend your daughter. Be your daughter's friend. Win her confidence. I guess if you could do this, with time she will  trust  and confide in you the more . And whatever advice you offered will be acceptable because you both are on the same page and she will realise you are acting on her own interest  ... View more

Well I will suggest you get him engage in sporting and other local activities where you live. Some of that nature may help him to help engage with kids of his age. ... View more