Hi, Any time I ask him to put his shoes away (the shoe cupboard is right inside the door opposite to where he leaves his shoes) He throws his bag in the doorway, & his coat on the sofa. I ask him to please put them away & he says "later" . When I call him for dinner, he joins us 5/10 mins later. If I ask him to put his bike away, he won't do it until it goes dark. If I ask him to put clothes away, they gather dust before he does it. Anything I seem to ask, he can't do, until he wants to. I've spoken to him about it & he says he's not being disobedient but I nag him. I said I wouldn't nag if he would do what I ask. I ask him to respect that I like to keep my house clean & tidy, but he says it's not important & he doesn't care. He's not a bad person, he may just be lazy, but I'm wondering if there is another reason he can't respond to my wishes.
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My son is 16 yrs old, for a while now he has been showing signs of a different behaviour. He won't do anything when I ask him to do it. He makes excuses when I ask him to do anything & he doesn't do anything when I ask him to. He will do what I ask, but in his own time. I don't think he's just being disobedient, I actually think he can't do the things i ask of when I ask, only in his own time. He's very sporty, he has no problems at school, he has a balanced diet & he doesn't smoke or take drugs, I am 100% certain on this.
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