My 12 year old son has the same exact problems!  He is also almost a black belt in Ju-Jitzu.  He has suffered greatly over the past few years from bullying at school.  These bullies started out as friends but then began bullying him.  He is very quiet and shy by nature so he attracts bullies.   He is a straight A student and this is his first year trying cyber school which has gone well, but he still has no friends.  He is the nicest, down to earth kid and never has a bad thing to say about anyone.  He gets very depressed sometimes and I wish I could find him a good friend, but it seems impossible.  He is also hesitant to trust anyone after the betrayal of past friends. I wish your son all the best and wish there was someway kids who share this common issue could link up. take care!     ... View more