thanks for sharing . But I wonder if it have any solution? ... View more

Hi @Blended90, and thanks for posting.   With knowing so little, it is hard to say whether you should or shouldn't invite her...It depends on what you and your partner want out of the situation...   You might want to try a problem-solving technique... so:   1) identify your goal, or the type of relationship you want with your step-daughter. 2) Consider the pros and cons of inviting her and not inviting her, and try and evaluate whether this would bring you closer or farther from your goal.   It might also be good for you and your partner to set some boundaries with the step-daughter, and to tell her you love her and want her company but will not accept x, y, z behaviours. This might be better coming from your partner instead of you, given that he's her father (correct me if I'm wrong but that's how I interpreted your post).   Please let us know how you go! ... View more