Sounds like you don’t like your stepson altogether. Regardless or not its probably important that your husband feels respected when it comes to his son from his previous relationship. Blended families can be difficult. My step son lives with us full time . You might want to try and set healthy boundaries to make everything fair and equal so there is no favouritism. It might be a little unfair for you to make all these different arrangements without his son . If he’s apart of your family, he probably wants you to accept him and include him . By the sounds of it you don’t see him all the time and he certainly doesn’t live with you full time.   ... View more