I'm so sorry to hear you have been feeling anxious and worried for a long time around your twins social connections.
This is actually a common concern when raising twins. Twins usually find their best connections in each other and struggle to find other connections just as strong as the one they have with their twin. They are usually their own best friends. It must be stressful as a parent because of course you want your twins to have friends and other social relationships. Continuing to encourage them to engage in social activities is probably the most helpful thing you can do.
You might also like to consider joining some mothers of twins online groups, as you may find it helpful to know you are not alone in your concerns. Are they showing or expressing any concerns about having no friends? If they seem to be content and happy, then that is also good to acknowledge
A support service you may find helpful is Parent Line. Have a search online to find your state contact number for the service.
Thank you for joining the Reach Out Parents community and you are always welcome to seek additional support here too
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