Hi @Plzhelpme1996 ,    My heart really goes out to you reading your post, it sounds like an incredibly difficult situation for you as a mother, especially seeing that you're also coping with a new baby. It must feel terrible seeing your sons being treated like this- blended families can be really tough sometimes, but young people and children should be treated with respect and kindness so that they can feel safe and secure in their own home.    Do you mind if I ask how old your sons are?    I'm wondering if you have anyone in your life that could help to support you at the moment, or that you'd feel comfortable sharing what's happening for you at the moment? I can completely understand that might feel really hard, especially if your husband doesn't behave like this in public, but I'm wondering if it may be helpful for you to have some support from people in your life.    If you think it might be helpful to talk to someone about what's happening for you at the moment, Parentline  is a free counselling service for parents and carerss, you can call them from 9am - 9pm.    Another resource which may be helpful is Relationships Australia: they can offer counselling and support for blended familes, along with program like Circle of Security which can help parents and carers to build secure relationships with their children.    We'll also be sending you an email shortly, so please keep an eye out for that.    We're glad that you have found our space and were able to share what's happening for you at the moment @Plzhelpme1996 , wishing you all the best, and hope to hear back from you soon.  ... View more