Hello @Stepmom30 , I'm sorry to hear about the current situation that you are in. It sounds like things are really tough for you at the moment and that you are feeling uncomfortable around your boyfriend's son. Being in a blended family and managing different relationships can be really difficult at times.   You mentioned that your boyfriend's son had said some things to you whilst your boyfriend was not present, have you had the chance to speak with your boyfriend about what was said? It sounds like things are a bit intense for you, I'm just wondering if there is anyone that you feel comfortable talking to about what you have been going through? It looks like you're in the UK, is that right? We are an Australian service so unfortunately our local support options won't be suitable - I did find this service that looks like it could be useful if you ever feel like it would help to talk to someone.    I also just wanted to link you to some threads from other users who were in similar situations as you might find some of the suggestions or comments to be helpful . Here and here are some threads to read.  ... View more