I have a 14 year old daughter who was at 12 doing exceptionally academically and in sport, beautiful and happy…slowly she started to have girlfriend troubles by year 7 had a few strained relationships and was mostly friends with boys by year 8. She is bisexual but had a horrible experience with a boy who turned out to be very disturbed and forced himself sexually (not sex) and showed her horrible videos of cats being killed. She feels traumatised but this, this was only revealed to me today, it happened at the beginning of 13. She then had a lovely girlfriend which was fine, more friends in the end, and now a lovely boy who I would say is her first real love. They are smoking pot which his mum and I hate, and hanging around other kids doing the same, they are selling too we think. She had had two police cautions, one for theft and one caught with pot, doesn’t care, no fear or respect for authority! She seems like she blocks her feelings, she loves her little brother and adores our dogs, I know she had empathy and is very sweet with kids but she also had sooomuch anger!! I don’t know why She says she has trauma from her dad and my breakup (which I didn’t think was a bad one, we’re still friends and he wants to be there but she has recently rejected him a lot) She is on her second school, she has been suspended twice, again no respect for authority Self harming, pot everyday, and has tattooed herself Low iron, not eating properly and extremely thin She stays in her room when she’s not out with her boyfriend and this group, she cries for a minute or so every time he leaves, she has no girlfriends left, says she hates everyone. Says she feels like she might be a sociopath?! This was not who she was, I’m terrified of her future I don’t know what to do, psychiatrist and paediatrician say she might have ptsd but no other issues It’s a daily heartbreak ... View more