Hey @Pen7penny  Im really glad you shared this here - it takes alot to share our worries. I can hear how much you just want the best for your son. He sounds like a great young adult but that perhaps he has not had very close friendships outside of the family. Social relationships (friendships, romantic relationships, etc) are very important so its understandable that you're concerned. Im wondering if there is a bit of social anxiety? You mentioned that he couldn't get out of the car. Mind you, transitioning to uni from high school is a big change and is pretty scary for most people. Its a big adjustment for anyone and meeting new people can be super daunting especially in a new environment that we aren't familiar with. Im wondering how much pressure he might feel to make new friends? That pressure can sometimes make it even harder. There are some great articles on various things to do with friendships here (https://au.reachout.com/relationships/friendships) - maybe it would be worth you checking these out or even gently encouraging your son to check them out also. You mentioned he has started a new part time job - i think thats great and that in itself may already be helpful - working, often forces us to interact with workmates and customers, where we are more likely to develop connections, friendships, even relationships with workmates. I'm wondering if that is already a positive step for him that you may not have recognised - what do you think?     ... View more