I have been told by both of them that it’s the lies around my drinking and where I go sometimes, I’ve explained me being honest has caused more problems. I went to harbour an alcoholic rehabilitation place for drinking and drugs I was seen and told on the both occasions it’s a coping mechanism, discussed looking at different coping mechanisms but as it’s hard for me to go out because they again won’t be happy and it will cause arguments especially with my daughter as she wants to go out at her age and I respect that, I have depression and always tired from side affects of my medication it’s hard to do anything but she won’t help, feeling like talking to brick wall in the nicest way of course as I do love her so much and I want to fix it so badly ... View more

Hi thank you for getting back to me, this has been built up over the years since I developed epilepsy I have so many things that I have had to change, I’ve tried talking to my daughter about hard it is for me but am told that I am being selfish as I refuse to look after myself. I have spoken to my husband and unfortunately staying at my mums for some clearing my head time as we’ve been married for 20 years and he says that it’s the lack of trust they both have in regards to my drinking, they don’t like me going out as are worried with my uncontrollable epilepsy but I argue I can’t live in the house all the time and it’s not fair, my daughter doesn’t help me with anything in the house and she’s achieved so much and am so proud of her. I feel like I am the one wrong or am I don’t know anymore but don’t want to lose what I have Thank you and sorry 😢 just don’t know where to get help as I’ve tried self help through counselling and I can’t seem to get over this ... View more

Not sure if I did that correctly sorry as not success in my problems ... View more