Hello, I have been through the same story. In 15 years of marriage I don't believe my parents have come over 30 times. Yet we have visited them every other week. There was always an excuse, and a scolding on how I disaplined my kids infant of them. I finally realized they will never change. They have had other fily members ignore them for there self centered ways. Fortunately I have moved away from my manipulative parents. I plan never to talk nor see them again ... View more