Hi @Substitute and welcome to the Parents Forum. I understand your concern for your daughter, this must be very difficult for you to have to deal with, and I can see that you're doing your best to try to resolve the situation yourself. Given that you have mentioned about your daughter having ADHD, does she have any professional supports already in place that you could discuss this with to check about the possibility of this being related to a sensory issue? If not, does your daughter's school have a counsellor available that you can both talk to about this, or if you're not comfortable disclosing all of the information regarding this issue to her school counsellor, are you able to ask them to point you in the right direction for professional services just saying that you have concern's about your child's behaviour? As we are an Australian-based service, here is a list of international services if you need help locating a resource in your local area.       ... View more