Thanks for your input! He is stealing 'because he loves money and clothes' according to him. He has spent the money on clothes, food, and shouting his friends games and food. Yes I am in contact with his counsellor. Where I really get unsure is about consequences. This time I've decided not to let him go on a school camp, giving the reason that I can't be sure he can be trusted until he's had time to work on being trustworthy. I actually gave him a chance to go - if he took responsibility and started to behave in a good way - but he didn't - said he wouldn't go on camp . Now of course he's sorry and wants to be good and go. I'm freaking that it's too harsh to not let him go but worried that I've always been too lenient and this time I should keep my word. ... View more