Hi Jane500,   It must be very difficult for you and your daughter. I am an older mum as well. My three older children are in their twenties and my youngest is 11. I have been experiencing same situations. My son hardly ever gets invited to parties and playdates. My situation is I work full time and i don't go to school and hang out with other mums. It saddens me to see other kids going to playdates which my son tells me about, but he does not get invited. On the bright side my son is 11, going to high school next year and I am certain he will make new friends and be able to hang out with them and be part of a group he will feel included and happy. have you thought about joining a mum's group or maybe a hobbies group, something you like to do and connecting with other people who may have young kids?  I try to catch every moment while my kids growing up as they are wonderful in any stage so enjoy your time with you daughter and make the most of it!   I wish you and your daughter all the best.     ... View more

Hi Iona_RO,   Thank you for your response. Things got much better. We've had few chats since then and I offered my advice and support whatever my son decides to do. I encouraged him to reach out to his careers support adviser, which he has, and I think it gave him more clarity. He has partially switched his degree and is much happier now.  Thanka again       ... View more

Hi NomadSG, It's not easy to be a parent, we carry so much on our shoulders and always worry about our children. My children are in their twenties, I still worry about them and always will. Have you tried talking with your son to find out why he's engaging in this behaviour and finding out if he's going through something or something happened? When I am stressed, I try to step back and look at the situation as clearly as I am able to. I take a few deep breaths and remind myself that my stress is temporary and that things will eventually get better. Additionally, I find that activities such as gardening, going for a long walk, listening to music help manage my stress levels. Hope things get easier for you and your family.     ... View more

Hello,   Thank you for your advice and reaching to me. I have talked with my son and he has contacted support system @ the University and his school career adviser and have received very helpful information's. he is now much happier and is pursuing his degree. Really appreciate your email.   many thanks M   ... View more

Hello,  I could write a book on this one. I have four wonderful children ages 10, 18 twins & 21. All of them are precious little gifts to me! I could not be more proud of my little crew and would tell the world if I could. :). Getting together with my family at the end of the day, having laugh, watching shows together. Walking the doggo always help! I am looking for ideas how to support my adult son going through some life changes. Having teenagers can be challenging. I follow my instinct and I am their friend but also their parent. Not jumping out of bed at 5am to get ready for work!   ... View more