Hi im new here and im out of ideas and help and yep can you tell i tried google and came across this reachout page. A little background on my 11 year old son. We left a 14 year long domestic violent relationship with his dad. My son is adhd and ODD. The last 18 months have been out of control. To the point its constant calls to the police as he constantly threatens myself and his younger brother. 3 occasions in the last 2 months we have been taken to 2 of our local hospitals for him to be seen by mental health professionals only to be sent home. He was reffered to CAHMS and has had 3 appointments but nothing in those yet to help at all with our situation. He tells me and his younger brother almost on a daily basis that he is going to kill us. My house is damaged. My car is damaged. Most of the time this all happens when he is told no about something. I have absolutely no control. I cant punish him or take things away from him because that just escalates the situation. Everyone in the house walks on egg shells. My youngest son doesnt want him living here anymore. And to be honest its not fair for a 7 year old to feel so terrified all the time. I am in tears on a daily basis. To be honest id like to just pack my own bag and runaway. I dont know how u can have multiple calls to the police, visits to the hospital and visits to camhs and telling them all what u are living with and they be happy to send u home with him. ... View more