Hi ,   Thanks for reply , I am looking into resources now and I am desperate for help now.   As i don't want this to be transferred to little one as well, as an adult i myself struggle with stress management but then being disrespectful is not an option at all for anyone .She has exam stress and every time she is studying or have an assessment she stop eating and talking to anyone until she finished her work , for example this morning she did not make Breakfast for herself and then when I handed over some lunch to her and some fruits she burst out and said I am not going to eat anything at school as well . The way she said was so disrespectful and I felt so bad. I feel like i need to setup some kind of boundaries so that she just doesn't say things abruptly when she is stressed. I have a session booked next week with one of consultant so hope fully there will be some good strategies for me to adopt. But for now, I am not sure when i go home tonight should i tell that how i felt about her bad behavior and give her some kind of consequences or should i just stay quiet for now. Also, I'm not sure what to tell little one should i ask her to don't disturb nig sister for now but then she keeps on asking me why my big sister is mean to me and why you never give any consequences to her. With little one i normally block her screen time and she became better for some time but for big one I have no consequence. plan. for big one its mostly i give in more and more. Bear her tantrums and try to help her with everything. May be i need to step back from her for few days and tell her that her disrespect full behavior has bothered me a lot.   Regards  ... View more