Reaching out for thoughts on my situation. I am in a situation where my fiance and I are basically in a single income family with two kids and with my partner only working 1 day a week. With the overtime I do we are still doing it tough. I cop it off my partner that I’m not home enough to help with the kids and she questions why I need to work so much. (She knows why) We have a 2yo and 7yo I understand she wants/needs help with the kids but if I don’t do the overtime we won’t be financially ok. I try to take pressure of her by her having to never worry about needing to do grocery shopping or any cooking for me at all. I do all my breakfast lunch and dinner prep On a Sunday for the week including getting things ready for our family dinner that night aswell. And on my nights off I will do the cooking. We argue about her not getting to switch Off because she is a full time mum which I 100% get, but she seems to think that because of my type of job I always get to have fun and my job is easy to I get to switch off and not have to worry about anything. Which isn’t the case. All I think about whilst at work is missing time with my family, especially my kids. Im always getting asked “ you’re not happy are you” making me feel belittled and under appreciated - especially with how hard a work- Honestly I’m currently at a loss ... View more